Eric Richard Goms, born on March 3, 1977, passed away on March 4th, 2012, shortly after his 35th birthday. His life, though tragically short, was filled with joy, creativity, and deep connections with family and friends. As we reflect on his memory, we are reminded of the importance of cherishing every moment and the profound impact one individual can have on the lives of those around them. This tribute, shared through Harrison Family Mortuary, serves to honor Eric’s vibrant spirit and the lasting legacy he leaves behind.
From his earliest years, Eric was a natural entertainer. His mother fondly remembers him as the “clown” of the family, always ready with silly antics and imaginative costumes to bring laughter to any gathering. He had a unique ability to draw others into his world of fun, even persuading his father, Doug, and brother, Jamie, to join in his playful performances. This innate ability to bring joy was a hallmark of Eric’s personality throughout his life.
More than just an entertainer, Eric was a true friend to all. He possessed a remarkable empathy, reaching out to those who needed support, sometimes even before they realized it themselves. To know Eric was to be touched by his genuine warmth and kindness. Even a brief five-minute encounter could forge a lasting connection, a testament to his magnetic personality and sincere interest in others. Though he often hid his smile behind his hand, his eyes radiated joy and sincerity, reflecting the beautiful soul within.
Academically gifted, Eric excelled throughout his education, consistently achieving honor roll status from kindergarten through high school graduation at North Thurston. His love for the outdoors and a desire for creative expression led him to pursue carpentry. This profession perfectly blended his passion for working with his hands and his artistic talents. Eric’s skill in carpentry was truly exceptional. He crafted remarkable structures, transforming his family home with beautiful and functional additions. His mother proudly recalls the pergola he built above their deck, the welcoming front porch, new flooring, windows, siding, and countless other improvements. Eric was always there to lend a hand, readily fixing anything that needed repair, showcasing his unwavering dedication to his family.
The bond Eric shared with his family was immeasurable. His relationship with his brother, Jamie, was particularly special. From the moment Eric was born, they were inseparable. Jamie’s childhood nickname for Eric, “Little baby Earache,” born from a mispronunciation, became a cherished family anecdote, symbolizing their close and playful relationship. Through laughter, shared experiences, mutual support, and even brotherly disagreements, their bond remained unbreakable.
Beyond family, Eric cultivated deep and lasting friendships. Jeff Koden and James Obal were his closest companions, forming a trio known affectionately by Eric’s Uncle Bob as “The Three Stooges,” a term of endearment that captured their playful camaraderie. Jamie, the ever-present fourth member, was dubbed “Dartanion.” Uncle Bob, who stepped into a fatherly role after Doug’s passing ten years prior, loved both Eric and Jamie as his own sons, further highlighting the strong family connections that defined Eric’s life.
Fishing was a beloved pastime for Eric and his friends, Jeff and James. Jeff’s culinary skills ensured their catches were always perfectly prepared. His kindness extended to Eric’s mother, often bringing her freshly cooked fish. The loss of both Eric and Jeff is deeply felt by James, who now navigates life without his two closest friends. While his girlfriend offers companionship, the unique dynamic of the “Three Musketeers” remains irreplaceable.
Eric’s endearing habit of referring to his mother as “Mommy” continued into adulthood. Whenever his phone rang while they were together, he would proudly announce, “I’m with my Mommy.” This simple phrase filled her with joy and pride, solidifying their close and loving bond. He confided in her, seeking her advice and guidance, cherishing their long, heartfelt conversations. These moments of connection are now deeply missed.
Eric’s mother extends her deepest condolences to all who loved him, including her family, Jamie, Uncle Bob, her sister Priscilla, extended family, Jeff Koden’s family, Angie, James Obal, and all of Eric’s friends. Special mention is made of Angie, “The Love of his Life,” and her two sons, Jake and Drew. Eric’s love for Angie was profound, describing her as “the most beautiful woman in the world.” He embraced Jake and Drew as his own, cherishing their acceptance into their lives. Angie reciprocated this love, expressing her intention to marry Eric, a sentiment that deeply touched his mother. Their bond was evident, and a close friendship quickly blossomed between Angie and Eric’s mother.
One particularly poignant story involved Drew, who, while sitting on Eric’s lap, expressed a heartfelt wish: “Eric, I wish you were my real dad.” Eric, with tears in his eyes, gently replied, “No, you have a wonderful Dad.” Drew’s innocent response, “Oh, I love my Dad, but you are so handsome, I wished I looked like you!” became a cherished memory, exemplifying the deep affection Eric shared with Angie’s sons. Similar loving moments were shared with Jake, further solidifying Eric’s role as a loving and influential figure in their lives.
In this time of profound grief, Eric’s mother asks for continued thoughts and prayers. She finds solace in God’s grace, the love of her parents, and the comforting presence of her late husband Doug in Heaven. Eric’s ashes are interred alongside his grandparents, a place of belonging and peace. In a gesture of enduring friendship, Eric’s ashes are shared with Jeff’s family, symbolizing their inseparable bond in life and beyond. As we mourn Eric, we also remember Jeff, another cherished friend, loved and trusted like a son. Jeff’s kindness and caring nature, even extending to looking after Eric’s mother’s home and pets, will always be remembered.
Eric and Jeff’s passing together is a profound tragedy, yet there is a sense of solace in knowing they journeyed to Heaven together and will remain eternally connected. Harrison Family Mortuary understands the importance of honoring these bonds and provides compassionate support during times of loss.
We extend our gratitude to all who have come to celebrate Eric’s life and share their love and memories. May God bless and keep you all. Please sign the guest book and share your thoughts and pictures of Eric, keeping his memory alive in our hearts.
Sincerely,
Diane “Mommy”
For those wishing to express their sympathy, flowers can be sent to the family through the Heartfelt Sympathies Store, a service provided by Harrison Family Mortuary.
