Since September 11, 2001, the wars in Afghanistan and Iraq have tragically claimed the lives of over 7,000 American service members. Beyond combat, more than 16,000 additional service members have passed away due to other causes during this period. These profound losses are deeply felt by Gold Star Families, and the Department of Defense is committed to ensuring that all Americans, especially those within the department, understand the significant symbolism behind the Gold Star lapel pin and the Next of Kin lapel pin.
Deborah Skillman, Program Director at the Military Community and Family Policy Office at the Pentagon, explains that these pins were established “to recognize the sacrifices of so many.” To further this understanding, Skillman’s office has developed an informative eTutorial available on Military OneSource, dedicated to educating individuals about the Gold Star program and its profound meaning.
While service members are generally familiar with the Gold Star and its somber representation of loss, particularly in times of conflict, the military’s personnel turnover can lead to knowledge gaps. Skillman emphasizes that the eTutorial serves as a valuable resource for those who may be unfamiliar with the Gold Star program and what it signifies for military families who have lost a loved one in service.
The Origin and History of the Gold Star Symbol
The impetus for this educational initiative arose from Gold Star family members themselves. They voiced concerns about encountering well-intentioned but “unintentionally insensitive questions” regarding the Gold Star and Next of Kin lapel buttons. This highlighted a broader lack of public awareness about the meaning and history of these symbols.
The Gold Star tradition dates back to World War I. As the United States entered the war in 1917, families displayed banners featuring blue stars for each family member serving in the military. In the heartbreaking event that a service member was killed in combat, the blue star was replaced with a gold star, signifying the ultimate sacrifice.
In the aftermath of World War I, Gold Star Mothers organized and united, formally incorporating as a group in 1928. Today, the nation continues to observe Gold Star Mother’s Day annually on September 27th.
Honoring Generations of Gold Star Families
Gold Star families exist across generations, their lineage marked by service and sacrifice. From the families who lost loved ones in World War I, to those impacted by World War II, the Korean War, the Vietnam War, Desert Shield/Desert Storm, and the more recent conflicts in Afghanistan and Iraq, the Gold Star symbolizes a shared experience of profound loss and enduring honor.
To gain a deeper understanding of the Gold Star program and the resources available to military families, individuals are encouraged to visit https://millifelearning.militaryonesource.mil/. This platform offers further information and support, helping to ensure that Gold Star families are recognized, understood, and honored for their immense sacrifice to the nation.
